To a girl , by a girl

The voice of a girl , by a girl
I am a girl of simple choices .
I don't take things to my heart and cry over them. I pretend well . I have been through the worse of treatments. yet I stand here and speak all this . I am trying to cope up with people who call themselves a friend and then don't turn up when you need them . I am busy , i have work, these are the ultimate reasons and then they expect me to be there for them. I have been dragged into things I never thought of,For no reason or one reason that I don't hold back and speak out if you're wrong ? If my so called friends think I am trying to create an image for myself and I am  displaying a bad one,let's say a sluttty image of myself in front of people just for the fact that I do not stand by your ideals, then I am doing all of that and on purpose. 

I feel that people who themselves can't get to a stand try to bring others down and I take it positively. Sometimes it goes haywire that people who say you're close to them, expect things from you and also your sympathy ; don't put you  forward as a priority . 

Real friends are those who defend you when you're not there , who not call you out when you're wrong and not support you in your wrongs, not those who just show to be there and in the end mix up with people and bitch about you and your insecurities.

Oh my so called friends , please cut it out .

 I have realised that I am here not for crying and cringing , I am here to live my life all by myself . I don't need anyone to fill my ambitions and dreams , I'll work and work hard to achieve them . Being a girl does not restrict me to take up my career choices and do what I love to or what I want  to or what I don't want to.

People will judge,it's there ambition to.
A person never takes things over their heart and shall forgive people for their own peace whatsoever because one shouldn't worry their pretty little minds on such petty things , people will keep on throwing  rocks at things that shine
And that's what life is for to forgive and not take it to the heart.
I am writing all of this to make people realise that all of us are humans, I am a girl a boy , I love someone and I am dating them , I have best friends and have their support , I love my parents and will always , I wear clothes that I like , I can stay natural as i want to be , I can sleep , I can dance and do whatever I want
What are we fighting, destroying and backstabbing for ? And over what?  Differences between us ? this ain't to fight for. 

We are the people of this world , we need to support each other and stay together and not try to put each other down In anyway we can. 
Live a life for yourself and people you love and those who love you , 

Not show others that you're happy 

Kiss your own fingerprints
Hug your own curves  

you're made of  honey and spicy peppers 

You're a goddess

I hope you you'll never forget that
And that will make all the difference :)

3rd august 2017 

We are not toys (2017)

The real reason behind why girls get molested is because Indian society has conditioned people- specifically men to think women are at their disposal. That it is okay for them to assume authority over a woman’s lifestyle choices and decisions. That it is for a man to decide what a woman should be wearing, doing and also not doing. That women are objects that can be used by a man for pleasure, whenever they want, wherever they want.And this happens when you tell your daughter to cover herself up and come back home before it’s dark instead of teaching your son that being born with machoness and dicks does not entitle him to a woman’s attention or body. That happens when we expect our women to take precautions because ‘men will be men’. That happens when every time we blame a rape victim and suggest that she ‘asked for it’. That happens when Indian men grow up seeing women live their lives with a man’s approval – the husband, the father, the brother. That happens when a woman is slut-shamed for doing the same things a man is celebrated for. That happens when Indian men are told their masculinity can only be proven by exercising their dominance over women.
When we have leaders who say that where sugar is ants will roam then what do you expect of the others ?
After so many decades of struggle and promoting girl empowerment and feminism this is what we suffer from
' Not all men '
Not all men grope girls ,   girls ? Isn't that called decency or is it a favour
What have we come up to ?
We are progressing in every aspect!
Mass molestation happening , girls being groped every minute , really a hats of sons and brothers of mothers and sister
Hope you don't even get place in hell 

October 2017